As the
title suggests, “viewing a situation as a challenge will lead you to perform
much better than viewing the same exact situation as a threat.” The article
describes studies on why some people thrive on pressure while others dread it.
It comes down to how a person perceives the challenge relative to their
abilities.
People who are preparing for an event that they
construe as a threat find the entire process far more demanding and stressful,
while those who are preparing for a challenge end up performing much better.
The article
shows that we can be taught how to prepare for this.
People
can be trained to actively and intentionally engage in reconstrual; in fact,
this process is one of the hallmarks of cognitive behavioral therapy. This
model and its effects may rest on the assumption that people are prone to
consistently construe situations in one way or the other based on their
resource assessments, but that doesn’t mean that this tendency is immutable. If
you actively re-frame stressful situations as challenges and your elevated
heart rate as excitement (or “efficient effort mobilization”), you can improve
your health, well-being, and performance level, all at the same time.
[Emphasis added.]
In other
words I think we can tell ourselves that we’re looking forward to the challenge
rather than dreading it. We can tell ourselves that we welcome the opportunity
to show what we can do. Yes, it’s a form of “faking it until we make it.” And,
yes, there are limitations to when this works. For instance I can’t fool myself
into thinking we can, say play star quarterback in the NFL. Nonetheless, I do
believe in our normal daily environment we can improve our performance by
self-talking ourselves into looking at it as an opportunity to excel, not a
threat to fail.
I’ve tried
it before important presentations or meetings and before key tennis matches. I
do believe this has helped me perform better by keeping me loose and relaxed.
Anyway, the article starts off with a quote about how gymnast Aly Raisman
handles pressure.
You
ask [Aly Raisman] about feeling the pressure and she says, ‘I don’t really feel
it,’ and you know, I think it’s because she labels it something different in
her head. Some kids feel anxiety, feel pressure, she feels excitement. It’s
just how you label that.
I’d say it’s
more than just labeling a situation. It’s how you visualize the outcome. When I
know I’m heading into a potentially stressful meeting or encounter I’ll take a
few seconds to stop, close my eyes and visualize a positive outcome. I think it
helps because doing this keeps me relaxed as opposed to tensing up. I also
think it shifts the focus from internal (“I hope I don’t screw up and look bad!”)
to external (keeping my focus on the outcome and on the person I’m dealing
with).
One last
point. I think framing situations as challenges instead of threats helps us
reach “flow.” Flow is a concept identified by psychologist Mihaly
Csikszentmihalyi. See this Wikipedia entry on flow. We reach a flow
state when we’re completed absorbed by a task, when the challenge of the task stretches
our abilities but without overwhelming us. If it doesn’t challenge us to
stretch the activity bores us. If it’s too daunting it intimidates us. I think Aly
Raisman and other people who calmly face challenges believe they’re up to the
task or they’ve labeled the task as a challenge, not a threat.
